Menopause and Family Law: Why it matters in divorce and financial settlements

Menopause is a natural biological transition that affects every woman, yet its implications in family law have only recently been acknowledged. The physical, emotional, and psychological effects of menopause can influence memory, mood, and an ability to focus.  This can impact on the speed and manner in which divorce and financial proceedings are approached and progressed.  

Menopause: The Overlooked Factor in Divorce

Statistics show that over 60% of divorces in the UK are initiated by women, with the most common ages for women initiating divorces peaking in the 45-49 age range, aligning closely with the typical ages for menopause.  Menopause can cause anxiety, depression, brain fog, and sleep disturbance, which can affect communication, intimacy, and emotional resilience.  These can all contribute to marital breakdown.  Women and men can both struggle to recognise the impact menopause has had on their marriage.  

It is not uncommon for women going through the menopause to feel overwhelmed or unsupported during this phase of life, when they may be caring for both young (or teenage) children and elderly parents.  This can lead to feelings of isolation and, ultimately, the decision to separate.

Financial considerations in menopause-related divorce

When considering how to share financial resources on divorce, the law requires consideration to be given to each party’s income and earning capacity, as well as any physical or mental disability.  Severe menopausal symptoms such as chronic fatigue, cognitive impairment, or anxiety can reduce a woman’s ability to work or progress in her career, directly impacting on her financial needs.  The law requires thought to be given to achieving a financial clean break on divorce, and if not possible, to trying to achieve shorter terms of financial dependency.  As such creative thinking will be needed to ensure sufficient provision is made for women in their 50s who may have a temporarily diminished earning capacity due to menopause.

Menopause also intersects with retirement planning.  Women who reduce their working hours or leave employment due to menopause related symptoms may necessarily have to make lesser pension contributions or stop investing temporarily.  Pension sharing orders are vital in ensuring long-term financial security following divorce where one party would otherwise have insufficient income in their retirement. Consideration of retirement age based on medical evidence from an occupational therapist may be helpful in finding a fair outcome.

Raising awareness of menopause in practice

Despite growing awareness, menopause is still rarely mentioned explicitly in family law proceedings, and in some cultures remains a taboo subject.  This is outdated and it is crucial to achieving fairness that financial outcomes are reached with a full understanding of the relevance of menopause.

Why menopause should be considered in family law cases

Menopause affects half the population and we must fully recognise it in order to achieve  more equitable and compassionate outcomes. Please contact us, to speak to a member of the family team about the topics raised within this article.

Sarah Speed
Partner, Family
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